20 September 2010

A simple call...

My son, James (aka JJ) called me this morning.

He really encouraged my heart today. He called me for advice.

It is not that this is an infrequent event. He still calls from time to time. But it is nice to know, that even though he is in Boston with his lovely wife (who gives him wise counsel), he still considers my opinion worth hearing.

It is on days like this I feel proud of my son. He has a heart for God. He works hard with young lives that need redirection. And he is wise enough to know that he does not have all the answers.

Good for him! And good for the kingdom of God!

12 September 2010

Pops!

On 10 Sep 10, I became a grandfather.

My first thought about this is that I am far too young, but when I look in the mirror, it does appear I am suited for the job. My bald head, gray hair, and somewhat paunchy waist bear a stunning resemblance to the grandfathers in my past.

My second thought is grandfatherhood didn't happen the way I had anticipated. I understand that some will struggle with my struggle, but I had hoped that all my grandchildren would be produced from committed married relationships. It hasn't. I believe my daughter and her boyfriend have made it harder on themselves, but I do hope they will endeavor to make a home where our grandson will know the blessing of a committed marriage and loving parents.

My third thought is about opportunity. Once again, God's purpose for me as a disciple maker is front and center. It is my hope that our grandson will be influenced by the example of his grandparents. It is my prayer that he will see Jesus in us and want a relationship with Him too.

"Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ." (I Corinthians 11.1, ESV)

So I am off...off to be "Pops"...off to another new adventure...off to make a difference for God's kingdom.